I think this is one of the best decisions I made in my 30th-- to write my 31 year old self. I used FutureMe, and I am grateful to whoever introduced this to me. Happy birthday, Jonah. :)
I love what I wrote, so I will share this here:
Dear FutureMe,
Right now ari ko sa Tubungan, writing down this letter to you. It's our 30th birthday, and honestly you're not sure if you're going to arrive at being 50. But here are 30 things I would like you to remember as what I learned so far in our life.
1. Family is constant -- and they are also a pain in the ass. You cannot change them. Continue to love them by constantly praying for them.
2. You are going to be tempted, but remember that what you feel -- it's not real. Emotions are just proof that you are vulnerable.
3. Boundaries will not always be welcomed. Do it anyway.
4. You need pen and paper.
5. Bring tissue and wet wipes while travelling. Also chopsticks.
6. Don't drain your battery and remember gadgets that have batteries because maguba na sya if hindi na pag-gamiton (remember your Kindle)
7. You need to sleep.
8. Reach out. Share. Laugh at yourself.
9. Rest. Schedule your year around vacations.
10. A rested leader will also find rested followers.
11. Create. Enjoy how God designed you.
12. Pay all your debt.
13. It's not worth it to have debt for gadgets.
14. Communicate, especially if you don't understand.
15. Don't depend on feelings.
16. Wash your face every night. Exercise. Walk - move.
17. Buy neutrals.
18. Dresses are good for travelling light.
19. Friendships are not made overnight, but some people do connect with you easily.
20. Cooking can be learned. Character is built. You have a choice.
21. Appreciate. Affirm. Encourage.
22. Helping another person is not always helpful.
23. Read.
24. Learn something new everyday.
25. Friendship is a commitment and a 2-way street.
26. Prioritize important over the urgent.
27. Relationships first.
28. It's still going to be God's word.
29. Be honest with God.
30. You need God.
You can add to the list.
For now, enjoy your day and remember -- bask in God's embrace and approval of you.
I love you Jon, don't be too hard on yourself. <3